Lately I am riddled with health issues. I've been sick for two weeks straight, had a migraine on Christmas, had severe energy issues this year in general, etc.

It's now past 5pm where I am and my family has just sprung on me that they want to have a whole BBQ this evening still before New Years. I said that's fine, you guys can do that but we won't stick around then. We're sick, it's storming. We will come for a bit and then go home.

Well that didn't go down well. My sister tells me there's always something lately with me that I can't join them for stuff (note also they barely invite me, for every like 10 times they go out, I get invited maybe once or twice). They only invite me to the "big" or "important" things really.

I don't get it why it always has to be a fight. Why can't people just respect that other people don't want to do stuff for hours when sick. Why must it always be a whole big fight. There's no respect for people's health. 😡😡😡