Edit: for everyone saying it was not an emergency, the urgent care was closed and a clinic next to my house would have been closed for the next few days. I was having difficulty breathing, could not move and could barely speak. Plus I thought I was pregnant so I didn’t want to take any medications ( I didn’t have a pregnancy test at home). I had no other choice. Once we got to the hospital, he had to talk for me . If I called an ambulance, I wouldn’t have been able to describe any of my symptoms or tell them not to give me any mediations before finding out whether I was pregnant or not. And no I do not go to the ER often. I have only been to the ER once for appendix and that is all. Never have I ever called anyone to take me to the ER for a non-emergency situation. Lastly, us not living together makes sense for me as of right now since it would take two hours for me to get to work from where he lives and if he lives with me it would take him an hour to get to work. So for anyone that is being judgy take a step back and relax with the hateful comments. Original post: My husband and I don’t live together just yet. I needed to go the ER last night for something, I called him to take me ( lives about an hour away). He takes me and he doesn’t like the fact he has to wait so long for the tests and the results. I can see him being very uncomfortable/irritated because lack of sleep. I finally told him to go home and sleep after waiting 5 hours with me. He kept on saying thing s like “ my whole day tomorrow is going to be ruined since I can’t do any of things I need to do. So finally, He starts to leave and goes “ can one of your friends or family members pick you up?” Like don’t bother calling me . I was obviously upset about what he said, but I was too sick to say anything so I said I’ll Uber home. I took and Uber home after a few hours. I brought this up to him and he goes “first off being sick is all in your head but I took you anyway and this how you treat me? And then goes you have a twisted way of thinking and you’re the one that said to go home. He could’ve easily stayed at my house which is 15 minutes away or stayed with despite me asking him to go home. I am not sure I am just being emotional or am I right in being upset over this? Edit: i live with an elderly family member that can not drive, they suggested they call my husband who should take me. I needed physical support to even get my me out of bed and to the door. I didn’t want a stranger to literally get me out of bed and take me there. I don’t think I am in the wrong for thinking my husband should be my go-to for support.