This is almost like a pt 2 to my last post but going into depth of what happened.

So my (ex) bf and I have been fighting since he’s gotten back from out of state. The other day he told me to come get my stuff and to talk. We ended up talking, everything was okay and then we were going to bed. Before bed, I asked him to pop my back and he told me he didn’t feel like it. I started tickling him, poking at his sides and poking his neck. He finally caved and popped my back. Then he went silent and shut down. I asked him what had happened and he replied “You forcefully grabbed my f**king neck.” I replied to him saying we were laughing and playing around, “Did I trigger you or something?” He had told me his ex used to hit him. He told me I did and I felt so remorseful about it, I was going to rub his back and apologize but before I did, I asked if I could touch him. He told me not to fucking touch him, so I asked if I should leave. He told me to leave, so I did. No questions asked, just an apology for triggering him and that it wasn’t my intention.

Next day he sends me a message breaking up with me because he felt uncomfortable and unsafe around me. Called him up and tried talking to him. Asked him if that’s what his ex did, grab his neck. He told me that was none of my business and how he’s uncomfortable talking about his past. I told him again that I wasn’t trying to trigger him or beat on him, I was just playing and tickling him. An hour later he messages me again stating he’s gotten advice and since we have a baby on the way, it falls under domestic violence and that he reported me to the police…. He then told me he canceled the report after a few hours go by.

To me, that’s psychotic because it put my future and my nursing license in jeopardy. Not to mention, it also put the baby’s life in danger because I wouldn’t be able to provide… I don’t know what to do.