So me and my ex partner decided to be together again after 8 years of being apart but remaining friends. We decided to have sex so 1st time we used a condom and the sex was ok but the issue was he stated he had to do foreplay to get hard we did that for about 30mins then when we finally had sex he would always slide out have to play with it and put it back in (tmi) I thought maybe the condom was the problem.....but this the second time we had sex and he did it and we didn't use a condom this time and he still had to do the same thing, my question is, is this because he might not be sexually attracted to me or physically. I'm just not understanding because he like to have sex he can give the best head but why do he go soft in the middle of sex then when he cums he stays hard and then say let's go. I'm starting to think this not gone work because I don't know why this happening. When we was together in the part this man couldn't stop having sex with me and he stayed hard no problem. And I stay wet so I'm confused. Is there any methods I should try