I have been SA and raped over false rumours. Men lie, men are sneaky, men make up stories to keep their dignity. You do the right thing, love too hard & what happens is your thrown into the curb because you have got no substance in your life according to these people. They say that you are bad, they say that you deserve to die, simply out of jealousy for doing the right thing and learning how to survive through all the SA, rape and rumours.

Personally, it’s difficult - I can’t live much longer if these things are going to continue. Because when someone close to you decides to do these things it breaks you, your heart begins to burn and you can’t function anymore. Talking, walking, and living becomes hard. Your body seems to suddenly hurt, until your not the same anymore.

We all make mistakes, we all do things that give us regret, but do the people who do these things to us have this regret that I have? I simply am unsure. All I know if that life is hard when you are let down. The life in us is then clouded with depressive episodes and we are left feeling almost helpless.

Why are we pressured by society to be like this. Why are we told that its not real. Why do the good people we trust with our stories suddenly turn around and becomes the most evil versions of themselves simply because they can’t accept our situation.

Because you were SA, raped we are told that we are sl*ty. This shame people put onto us is not only awful in my opinion but it kills people.

Be wise is what I would say to them, and consider where we come from.