We been trying to conceive for bout few years now but this time we really are trying hardest i just turn 37 i have 3 kids always wanted a family of 4 the issue is i am consider highly risk because of age and health i have in the past PE not sure how but i did and i have SLE i tske my treatments not all the time only when flares happens and last year about 6 month ago had a LEEP done i am just wondering am i playing my self for trying to have a 4th will i be in danger i really want this but i am scare