im 18 and so confused

Kaitlynn

Hi im kaitlynn, im 18 and hate the feeling of not understanding whats going on with my body. just for a little background, around 15 or 16 i was on birth control for my acne but i have been off of it for at least a little over a year. after I got off of birth control, I have had normal periods every month, it would vary between being like four days late and coming exactly on time which before birth control my period was very irregular, I could go 6 to 8 months without having it. so birth control also helped my period become regular.  I am currently 18 my birthday was a few days ago, my boyfriend is 17. i had a period november 19-24, but my doctor prescribed me the birth control ring that you insert in your vagina that i put in after that period and I guess it had fallen out early, (i didnt even have it in for a week) so then I got another period around December 3-8. (i did not continue use of the birth control ring after that) and I use this app and Flo to track my period and this app said i should get my period around january 4 and flo said i should get my period around january 8 or 9. I still currently have no period, I have never been this late before, I have nipple discharge (which I have never had before either so that freaked me out) , i has spotting//very light bleeding on january 7 and 8 (my period is really heavy and much longer than two days so i know it was not my period) and then the day after i had a lot of mucus like discharge (which i have also never had before), i have had an increase in discharge (white or pale yellow), i get nausea here and there, shortness of breath, headaches, lightheaded and dizziness, pressure in my breast and stomach, pelvic pain, breast pain, hot flashes, bloating, sharp pain on my right side underneath my breast, backaches, and fatigue. i did take a pregnancy test on january 8 and it was negative and then i tested again on january 13 and it was negative again. so i am very confused, my boyfriend and i did miscarry december of 2021 and this would be our rainbow baby if i was pregnant, i know we are young so please no hate. my boyfriend is a very good person and such a hard worker and very dedicated to me and our possible pregnancy. i just need advice on what to do please. anyone who cared enough to read this far and help me out, i truly appreciate it. im willing to answer any questions if needed to help me understand whats going on with my body. 🤍