I was with my first baby daddy when I was 17 and he was 29. I got pregnant in 2018 (a year after being with him) and had twins. Had a daughter in 2019, had another daughter in 2020.

The relationship was abusive and unhealthy, I left. I was with him for 4 years.

Baby daddy #2 in 2021, 2022 I got pregnant, had a daughter currently 23, I’ll be 24 in July. I was with him for almost 2 years.

A 30 year old could have 5 kids and be a horrid, irresponsible mom, why does age define anything? I work, I own my car and my mom and dad didn’t help me (been on my own since 15/16).. Am I missing something?