What would y’all do? Crazy in laws and gender of baby

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So my in laws are making this pregnancy miserable like they with my other three. They all keep saying, “you’re definitely having a boy” 
My third baby was a girl (we already have 2 boys) and they said I got lucky with her being a girl. 
They are kinda making this miserable for me.
I kinda want to wait until birth to find out the gender, find out and not tell them about it, found out it’s a girl and rub it in their face— I don’t know— thoughts? 
It’s a everyday thing with them. “How does it feel getting your THIRD boy? Sissy will never have a sister to play with. You better love her and spend a lot of time with her because she will be your only girl!”
I’m only 12 weeks so I feel like this is just dragging out. I FEEL like it’s a girl. And I told them that and they said I was wrong! Apparently I don’t have any mother intuition. Wait un

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Who cares? This seems like an overreaction and shit a lot of people say and do. Ignore it. You have a 50% chance of having a boy and 50% chance of having a girl. Y’all get what you get. They’re sharing their opinion not challenging your “mothers intuition.” Wait until birth of you want, but all of this seems petty.

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I’d just ignore them at this point & wait. I’m on my third boy and my mom constantly “are you sure you’re not having a girl?” “Are you sure they didn’t just mess up?” It’s annoying as hell, but it’s not even worth putting my energy into.

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Their obsession with the gender of your child is weird as hell, tell them to mind their business.

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Honey, I'm the TEXT THREAD MUTE QUEEN!!!

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I know how ya feel, My husbands family has no girls in 3 generations, until my daughter was born. While I was pregnant they didn’t believe she was girl even with the very clear vagina in the ultrasound pics and constantly talked about it. This time around it’s even worse since I wasn’t able to confirm our blood test (baby wouldn’t show the ultasound lol) they even are going as far as to buy some boy clothes “just in case” 🙄🙄🙄 they have some weird obsessions with boys and are sterotypical “boy moms” through and through.

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I'm not sure I would bother telling them at all. My husband can do it if he insist, but I wouldn't spent time on them. I wouldn't even see them unless absolutely necessary.

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What a bunch of weirdos. 
I wouldn't tell them whether or not you choose to find out. Or I would be spiteful and let everyone else know first so they are the last to find out 😆

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It could be a traditional cultural aspect. Boys seem to be more valued in society. My in laws are desperate for me to have a boy and everyone is convinced I’m having a boy. DH’s dad is very Victorian for want of a better word. Everyone will always have their opinions and butt their noses in. This isn’t worth the energy or hassle. Just let them say whatever, and allow it to roll off your back.

What would y’all do? Crazy in laws and gender of baby

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