I need help on shedding light on my situation

I had sex with a long time friend idk we both just got a out of a relationship that I know of so I was lonely ofc and we talked about sex and protection and things before hand we discussed a lot as in we probably weren’t going to use protection with each other but I guess I wanted to listen to my body made a mistake of not continuing to use protection with him he’s just my friend we were just fucking that’s all not sure if he was catching feelings but I was and was enjoying them I gotta call that I had gonorrhea but it seems like he doesn’t know that because he wants to have sex again and so do I but I’m not going to ofcourse and the last time we had we got in the argument because he took the condom off and he’s had it for months because I didn’t and don’t talk to to him so I guess he doesn’t know he had it I’m seeing him tonight for the first time in a few and I’m gonna tell him no sex unless he gets tested but I’m still not having sex with him after the fact so do I say as in words u should go get tested or say something else

Added: He gave me gonorrhea and doesn’t know he has it also not gonna lie I’m sure I got pregnant by him and I’m not tryna start anything with him due to me telling him in a few