Should I tell my sneaky link that I am pregnant?

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Plus no rude comments 
I had a sneaky link for a few months on November 3rd I ended it. On November 5th I got with my boyfriend who I have known for 2 years and on November 16th I found out I was pregnant. I was 3 1/2 weeks when I found out I was pregnant. I told my boyfriend that I am pregnant he is so happy! I haven’t told the other guy because he’s in a relationship with his son’s mother. But he texted me out of nowhere and asked me how I’ve been and that he misses me. Half of me wants to tell him but my boyfriend will be hurt and devastated if this baby is not his. I really think it’s my sneaking link’s baby because the pains I was feeling I believe was ovulation pains on November 3rd. I had sex with my sneaky link on oct,28th,29th,30th,31st, November 2nd,3rd, and had sex with my now boyfriend on November 5th. I know only a dna test will say who the other is. But my question is should I tell the other guy that he is a potential ￼father? He might ask why I am now telling him at 14 weeks!

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You gotta tell both bc you’ll need to do a dna test. You can get a prenatal one through bloodwork.

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Definitely let him know. It’s too close in dates to be 100% sure without a DNA test

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yes if the dates are so close apart and you have not had a period in between each partner I would totally tell both they could be potential fathers. it’ll hurt worse finding out later when the baby is born that either one was not the dad and the one who was and you didn’t tell could be upset.

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I would

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Please tell ur sneaky link that’s he could potentially be the father of ur baby sit your boyfriend and let him know as well… have an adult conversation be open and honest so in the end it ain’t bite you in the ass bcuz of the bf not the dad and you didn’t tell him it was another potential dad I’m sure he will be devastated bcuz he will have bond with the baby and i kno that would tear anyone down that truly cares.

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I feel like your sneaky link is the father… we’re you with your BF before? Did you cheat on him? Will be mad at you for hooking up with this other guy? 
Either way, you should tell now. The baby might clearly look like one or the other and that would be awkward if you didn’t tell!!

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I would tell them both now cause I’d be MAD to be there for your entire pregnancy and not have it be mine. And I’d be mad, to not be there if it was mine. 
Did the crime, do the time. Suck it up and tell them both even if that means drama and turmoil.

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The least you could do is tell him the truth because he deserves better

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Yes it is the right thing to do.

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You can get a prenatal DNA test so your not having to question things the entire pregnancy. I would suggest being up front and honest to both and have them both take it. I’d rather someone be honest and upfront then lie (not saying you are/aren’t). There’s nothing wrong with how you got pregnant or how your thinking about just trying to keep the peace. Regardless I’m sure that baby will be loved & taken care of. Good luck & Congratulations 🎊 ❤️

Should I tell my sneaky link that I am pregnant?

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