Smelly Husband

My husband has in recent years become heavier and overwhelmingly smelly. He used to be someone who is clean shaven and showers to come see when we were dating. I have tried being subtle, making it motivating or fun, or buying him more shower gel, deodorant, and colognes. He refuses to shower unless it's for him or others. After a whole day of gaming,sleeping, and and wears his dirty outside clothes to bed his breath and body reeks sour. He also doesn't care about how I feel and tries pushing for intimacy when he knows his odor really bothers me and his stubbles scratches and hurt my face. If I talk to him about it, he flips the table on me and says I am the one who pushes away intimacy in the relationship and that I am so annoying and just storms off not caring. He knows if he just takes a 5 mins shower and freshens up I wouldn't have any problem, but he says it's always so much work to be intimate with me. I am trying to be gentle with him about it and tried direct. He has said he will try in words many times but never in action. I'm at my wits end. What should I do?

BTW(This is not a medical issue, just hygiene)

Update:

* I have been blunt with him too, it just pisses him off.

*I have been rejecting him more now because of this issue.

* I don't mean rape. He's been super horny. I just mean he tries to stick his tongue in my mouth, trying to make out. Or lay his heavy self on top of me and I get upset and push him away and that starts the cycle of me saying can't he just shower then we can cuddle and him basically calling me high maintenance and storming off.

* He works from home. Games all night ( sweating) Sometimes showers in the morning for work ( as if his co-workers have smell-o-vison) or for sleeping in( which is heavy smelly sweat). By the time I get home, he would tell me he has shower today, but the smell cycle restarts, and we repeat all the above.