am i overreacting?
long story short i was in a really bad accident last summer and i spent weeks in the hospital and had hella surgeries done and they put me on hella drugs and all these procedures to keep me alive like it was really bad, and my mom recorded every single moment and posted everything on facebook.
like the stuff she posted wasn’t even necessary to post like it was literally me looking like a corpse dying on the hospital bed, bloody as hell, multiple broken bones, she posted some videos of me crying in pain like there’s this video of the nurse taking a tube out of my head or smth and i was crying screaming in so much pain in the video and she still posted it. just shit like that like first off ur daughter literally might not make it and ur recording every single moment. but anyways fine i can excuse that i don’t really care. i’m upset that she posted the entire situation on facebook for hundreds of people that i don’t even know to look at.
but you know what, what happened happened ppl do things with good intentions sometimes. so the other day i asked her to please delete the posts from months ago off her facebook because it made me uncomfortable . it turned into a huge fight and i was homeless for like 2 days but now i’m living with them again and the posts are still up. i just don’t get why it’s that serious to keep the posts up. they’re not even cute it’s like graphic as hell and disturbing i literally almost died. and the only excuse she has to keep it up is that it’s “legal” and that “legally” there’s nothing wrong with her posting what she did and she doesn’t have to delete anything. the whole thing felt really manipulative and gaslighting because she and my ugly ass step dad kept making me feel like i was crazy for suggesting such a thing, acting like the accident wasn’t even that big of a deal. like bro what. and honestly i know she only posted everything for clout and attention so i’m not even that surprised everything unfolded how it did i’m just like damn am i rly the bad guy in this situation.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.