He’s annoyed

I’ve been in bed with a really bad stomach bug since yesterday morning. It’s coming from both ends and it’s awful. When I’m not throwing up into a bucket I’ve been literally running to the bathroom. Nothing coming out of either end is solid. TMI I’m sorry 😞. I feel like I did a colonoscopy prep.

Anyways, there’s nothing I can do about it. My husband works from home and told me that he would watch our 2 year old. I know it’s wrong for him to do it because he’s working. I’ve felt terrible about it all day. Every time he’s come in to see me he makes a comment of how hard the day has been and how behind he is. I keep offering to come be with our daughter each time and each time he says it’s not a big deal. It’s gotten so in my face that I called my Dad and asked if he could watch her tomorrow for just a few hours. My husband was like “why would you do that?” and I said because he seemed overwhelmed and I was trying to help.

It’s not like I planned to get sick. Last month when we all had COVID he stayed in our basement all to himself while my daughter and I worked through it upstairs. Then he was over it in a couple of days but it went to my lungs and I only JUST recovered from it last weekend. Then I get sick a week later. I never just lay in bed. I’m usually on the floor while my kid plays no matter how sick but this time it’s bad.

But he’s been so annoyed today with everything. I feel terrible but I’m also like, crap happens! There’s nothing I can do about it.