Can you be with a man that has a hygiene issue?

Well my kids father doesn’t like taking showers Every day and sometimes it goes on for three days. Lately we haven’t been getting along so his clothes haven’t been here but he still manages to be here every night and I feel like now he’s taking advantage of me because he’s just laying on my couch with the same clothes every night as if he’s just needing a place to stay. He literally will say I took a bath the day before yesterday as if it sounds better than saying two days ago. He will leave a smell in my house after a certain amount of days and I tell him he needs to take a bath he will get an attitude & says he will leave and come back. He also hasn’t had a job in months and told me that things were going downhill and that I needed to find a job out of all people and I looked at him crazy… I’m not happy and I’ve been trying my hardest but the main thing is The laziness & being unclean. I just wanted to know has anyone dealt with this issue as far as a man not wanting to clean after himself..

Sn: My son also begs him to spend time with him. He acts like it kills him to spend quality time with him, he is 4!

No video game , bed time story nothing! I get onto him all the time nothing changes & he has known him since 3 months old.

We have 1 child & otw! I don’t regret my kids but I made a mistake with him. I’m behind on all my bills & his only response is when a job comes it’ll come.

He doesn’t have his lisense let alone can cook or drive!

I’m at my breaking point