Back when my husband and I were dating… I accidentally revealed some home made videos of my ex and I. Years later my husband admitted since seeing them it’s been on his mind how turned on he was while watching the woman he loves receiving pleasure. I’ve deleted all of my dirt when we got married but he did ask if I still had the videos for us to enjoy together. He recently had a dream of me with another man and shared the dream with me. He’s since done research on why he is feeling the way he’s feeling and discovered the term for this is called ‘hot wifing’ … I’ve ignorantly thought this term was the same as “cuckold” but we learn something new everyday don’t we!? We are very open and honest with one another which I absolutely love about our marriage. He said it’s a fantasy of his, seeing his wife gain pleasure from another man, and that he has absolutely no desire for it to actually happen or to bring any strangers into our marriage at this point in our lives. He said it was odd getting so turned on by the videos but it was before us so he didn’t feel any type of betrayal etc. I didn’t want to freak out when he first shared this with me, since I am a very open person myself, also I feared him completed shutting down sharing any future desires with me if I were to of responded with a negative reaction. Honestly, the thought of it felt kind of disgusting at first but the more research I’ve done on the term, I’d by lying if I said I wasn’t slightly Intrigued just a little tiny bit on the topic😇. My husband and I have a great sex life and satisfy one another 100%, and he said he would never want to share me, it’s just the fantasy of it all. I want to fulfill his fantasy’s, all of them! As he would mine. So maybe we’ll try role play first… or I can make up sexy stories about other men pleasing me and whisper them to him while we make love. Or maybe we can check out the Hedonism Resort on our 30yr wedding anniversary 😜. Anywayyssss I just wanted to put this topic out there for discussion and see if anyone has any stories or similar desires that they can relate to this. *And please save any negative comments to yourself! In my past I was in many toxic relationships where the guy wanted a threesome purely for his own selfish gain. This is a healthy loving open and honest marriage.* Thanks for reading! 💋