Social Life

So twice a month I go to a MOPS group and last week I missed it. I was so disappointed I wasn’t able to go because of sickness. I mentioned I was disappointed to my husband and then made a joke about there goes my social life. It’s the only thing I get to do for myself and I’m not even alone when I do it because I take LO with me.

He says to me “you’ve got more of one than me” and I asked how so? He works so maybe it’s not social but he gets to interact with people all day long. I have our baby and that’s it. He meets on zoom with a discipleship group once a week no matter what. I told him if he needs more he’s more than welcome to go out. He tells “I don’t have the time”. I understand working but I’m telling him he can and he can’t say he doesn’t have one if he doesn’t put work in to have one. I put the effort in so that I can have two days out of an entire month to talk with other Moms so I don’t feel so alone.

How can I help him. I don’t want him making up excuses to make me feel like he’s deprived when that’s not the case.