I'm beyond stressed already, my mental health is low and my aniexty through the roof this being because of work and what their doing and the crap I have found tonight,I'm on maternity,meant to be going back to work in a week year their doing everything to be awkward and hard work(their trying to find a way to get rid of me) so I'm currently having to deal with this, a 9 year old and 6month old 🥰, looking after the house, cooking,cleaning, I have spent 3 hours organising boxes with folders in,so I can use one of the grey boxes for baby's toys, as I'm doing that I have come across 20/30+ letters of debt in my hubby name. One which is threatening to get a warrant to enter our home, I haven't had chance to go through the others and some aren't open, better yet the ones he doesn't open and chuck away, so he gets over £2,000 a month, I get 1,300,

I pay the

Car and insurance

Council tax

Rent

Water

Phone bill

Food

Babies bits

Garage

He has

Gas and electric

Car tax

Outstanding debt for landlord

As I have said I haven't calculated or gone through them, I don't know bad it is, I have done everything on my side to clear anything outstanding. So me and the family can enjoy a holiday or go places and do things. Well that's on hold, I have now got to phone people to see if I can stop them from getting a warrant to enter as I had no awareness until now and with having two small children. They shouldn't suffer and loss what is here. I am fuming,upset and all other bits as he's lied to me and his mum saying he's up to date. He's also tried claiming is I am the only one liable for all the council tax. I am beyond myself. I feel sick to my stop

Im stuck can't talk to him about it as he gets angry I've told his mum I'll do what I can to clear it as a couple of them bills are in her name on, I don't know what to think or anything right now. All my money goes on bills,house, I mean wtf he's a grown ass man and he has none