Im scared to tell him

Kelsei

Ok yall i can'tpost this anywhere else so im hoping you all can help. Im currentlypregnantanddue May 28th however I haven'ttoldthe childs father I am pregnant. Prior to finding out I was pregnant my sons father physically assaulted me he threw me into a wall and choked me. With that being said the police were called and he was taken to jail. The attack sent me into a mental breakdown and I had to be placed into a mental health facility for a while. After I returned home I found out I was pregnant. I made the decision at that point to raise the baby on my own. But recently he has reached out and apologized for the incident and is doing whatever he can to gain my trust back. He just turned 30 and has no other kids. Should I tell him about the baby after he is born and the court case is clear?

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Al

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You shouldn’t talk to him ever again…What do you mean trying to gain your trust back? Do not communicate with him. He will end up killing you.

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Abusive people don’t change, they pretend to be better so they can trap you with them again. Statistically men who choke their partners are more likely to end up killing them. Stay far away from this man and do not tell him anything.

J

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NOOBy accepting his apology, it teaches him that you will tolerate his behavior. Sharing my story to relate to you and hopefully help you see it: my ex apologized every single time and I was dumb and took him back. He ended up threatening to kill me multiple times, caused preterm labor for me, punched me in the face while holding our INFANT, and then tried to kidnap my children and I.

J

J • Feb 8, 2023
My messages are open if you need anything. Good luck, stay safe ❤️

Ke

Kelsei • Feb 8, 2023
Thank you for sharing your story with me

St

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Don't have that man back into your life. He went to jail because he hit you, there isn't coming back from this. He's trying to take your trust back so he can hurt you again.Block him, tell him you're expecting someone else's baby, whatever you can to take him away from you

St

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As a soon to be mom what would you tell your child in that situation?? My guess would be a huge no and to protect themselves and male sure they are safe and to not go back to an abuser because they deserve better. Block any and all contact and disappear from him. It is beat for you but more importantly your baby.

to

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why would u tell him?? lol run