I hate feeling this way. About my boyfriend and his baby mama.

First off I want to say, I hate feeling this way, I wish I felt great and didn’t have any problems and didn’t feel horrible about some things.

But to preference I’m 21 weeks pregnant with my boyfriend. We’ve known each other for ever and all that jazz, when we got together he had another girl pregnant. (I’ve always advocated for him and always encouraged him to take care of the baby when he came and go to her appointments and all) as I was a single mom so I get that. The issue I’m having is my baby daddy isnt bitter he gets along with bf amazing and we all parent and bf and baby daddy get along and we exchange kids together and all.

His baby mama on the other hand hasn’t met me yet, won’t let him take his baby and only says he’s allowed supervised visits with her and that she “doesn’t give af about my feelings she’ll never want to meet me doesn’t want her kid around me, and I’m stupid for being pregnant” now I know she is jealous she’s admitted. And she had a baby recently I’m trying so hard to be nice I drive him and drop him off 2 days a week at her house for 3 hours on weeknds so he can see baby and also give her a break but she’ll still say “oh I hate her idc bout her” now he’s taking her to court soon to go for 50/50 so we can all parent and so we can actually see his baby his family hasn’t met his baby and I haven’t either, she says me and his fam are shitty.. but she doesn’t know me and his family is far from shitty. I try to sympathize with her being. A new first time mom but gosh I find it hard to be the nice person when she’s just so mean 😂 ima keep being nice and support there co parenting, although she’s very mean and accusing of everyone in his life also. But I just can’t wait to go to court and hopefully get some kind of parenting plan set up. She had like list of “conditions” that she wanted him to sign, basically micromanaging his daily life even. And he’s so scared she’s going to take away his baby all together but I’m just trying to encourage him to be a good dad, be there for the baby even if mom doesn’t want any extra love for the baby. I never would personally use a child as a pawn of control but I guess some do, I just hope everything works out, maybe she’ll change maybe she won’t. My bf and I live together we have a very safe home I’m a certified foster mama get house and background checks. And there’s no reason why we shouldn’t be able to have the baby some days a week😢 it breaks my heart. I have 3 kids and then his on the way, I respected her her whole pregnancy advocated he’d be there for her and now she’s saying “idgaf about her baby and yours it doesn’t matter you shouldn’t go to her appointments just be here with us only” and of course my bf isn’t mean to her he’s scared he gonna loose his kid but he has told her like “Heyy we aren’t together, I’m with her, she has kids we have a kid and she has one on the way, like we should just all get along” but then she goes off saying he doesn’t care about her and all this idk. I just want some piece and a normal schedule.