What does a quickie involve?

My fiancé and I were getting frisky in bed. When he got on top of me I reached for my nightstand to get my vibrator. He kept telling me not to get it. That he wanted this to be a “quickie”… I can only orgasm from the vibrator and he knows that. So does he think a “quickie” involves me not getting any pleasure or orgasm? Cause that’s fucked up if he thinks that. I got my vibrator anyway but I’m asking because he has said this more than once and I want to make sure I’m interpreting it the right way. There have been plenty of times where he would tell me not to get my vibrator so I don’t, and then once he finishes, he rolls over and sleeps…

I don’t want to talk to him about it because I know he’ll just manipulate me and change what he said. We’ve been together 5 years and in the first 4 years, I NEVER orgasmed because he doesn’t care about my pleasure. This last year, since getting the vibrator, I can count on my hands how many times I have orgasmed.