who’s wrong

this is long story short cause it’s a LONG story and it goes DEEP buuut who’s in the wrong?

so my husband got a job offer 3 hours away and took it. he literally was offered the job and leaving the same day so we had no time to talk this over he just says yes and goes. i knew we needed the money, so i didn’t complain. he’s there for a week and asked me to come visit with our baby. we end up staying for 6 weeks or so because he didn’t want us to leave but eventually baby and i came home cause we have doctors appointments and other things to do. he promised we would do all these things while we were there, but we didn’t do not one thing on his days off, he napped the whole time and if he wasn’t napping he would be a huge dick to me. i never complained. i understood he works 15 hour shifts snd only has three days off every two weeks and is tired so i just left it alone and was thankful to be with him either way. he would be so snappy and have such short patience for myself and our baby and constantly yell at me and blaming me for everything going wrong. we didn’t even do anything on valentine’s day because he gets embarrassed when the baby is loud in public because he’s a rowdy 11 month old boy so he’s crazy.. yet again i never once complained and i understood. anyways so he was too tired and aggravated and trying to save money that we never went and did anything with our kid the whole month we were there.. but tonight after we get home from our 3 hour trip he tells me him and his work bud are going to the casino after work.. soooo you can’t take your son the the aquarium bc we don’t have money to waste and you need sleep on your days off but.. you can go to the casino at 1am after work to blow money we “don’t have” so needless to say i freaked out and he’s completely tried to turn it around on me and act as if he’s the victim. to cut him some slack and give him a break snd that i purposely say stuff to make him feel like a pos. when literally all i said was the things i said in this post. you don’t have time or money for you baby and wife but you do for the casino? like i said it goes way deeper than this but honestly this is coming to a last straw for me snd i need to know if i’m wrong for being so upset? i feel so unappreciated and like my son and i are last priority.