Kind of embarrassing…how often do you have an*l sex?

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My hubby and I have been together for 10 years and we just had anal sex for the first time. It was great and I definitely hyped it up way more than I needed to!! Now my question is how often do you have anal? Is it like every time you have sex? Special occasions? Any insight is welcome! Thank you!

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bitch for some reason my brain skipped over the an*l part and i thought you meant just sex so i said all the time and was like wtf is wrong with these ladies saying never?! what a sad marriage trend that nobody long term has sex anymore. then i re read it 😂😂 so changing my vote to never 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

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Never, and that’s how it’s gonna stay.

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I’m not really a fan of it, but I’ll do it on rare occasions (not necessarily special occasions).

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Every time I have sex! I LOVE anal!!

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I'm going to be the oddball here but a few times a week, never did it before until my current man of 2 years!! I was married before for 18 years never tried it, but with my new man the sexual arousal, chemistry, sparks whatever you wanna call it, is there 🔥🔥He knows what my comfort level is and is always making sure I'm ok, also I have pelvic floor dysfunction so tbh vaginal sex is almost always more excruciating!! I'm looking at getting that checked out with my gyno, I want sex to feel satisfying in all entry points again!! Also the anal orgasms are so good!! 💁🏻‍♀️

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Ehh here and there. The prep is too much. Hard to be spontaneous with it. But also like I just don't like it. It's a mental thing for me. Germs and all that. I don't hate it physically. But I also don't love it physically. It's not something I'm like "ughhh let's do that ALL the time" 😍😍 but every once in awhile I'll prep and hit him with a "don't be shy...slip it in" 😘🤣

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Whenever I feel like it 🤷🏻‍♀️ which probably comes out to like 3 times per year lol. Not special occasions necessarily, but just once in a blue moon

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I actually enjoy it. But only every once in a while

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I said special occasions but I wouldn’t say it’s like birthdays and things of that nature, it’s more so when we want to and that makes it special.

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Never but a little stimulation there frequently

Kind of embarrassing…how often do you have an*l sex?

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