AITA..?

My husband is an in town truck driver and because of that we were able to talk on the phone on and off throughout our days for the past few years he’s been doing it. I know it’s a privilege but I definitely got spoiled. A few weeks ago he got a promotion and it’s wonderful, except he’s in an office now and we barely talk anymore despite his hour lunch break and that’s been a difficult adjustment. He’s taken up working out at the gym at work 4 hours a week when we bought a treadmill and row machine last year and he would only do 15 minutes on it every few months. He said it’s because he’s worried about getting big now that he’s sitting at a desk but 4 hours a week was just a huge sudden jump. Well, he mentioned today that he’s going to the gym so much at work because the CFO and the owner’s son work out there too with some other employees and he wants to get in good with them. I told him that it sucks to know that he’d rather schmooze than call me for 5 minutes one or two days a week. I told him I thought he was going for health reasons but to schmooze…I’m taking it personally and I feel like the a-hole. Yes, I know I sound insecure, but there are reasons for that too. Like the super hot trainer that his job provides for all employees. I don’t know what I’m looking for…a reality check?