I’m literally fed up of his moaning and negativity. I’ve been so unwell for like the last 8 weeks on and off. When I haven’t been unwell I’ve really tried to keep on top off stuff. All he ever does is moan about what I don’t get done or that I start jobs and don’t finish them. This week I was off work and we were both hoping to get loads done around the house. Instead I ended up with another infection that wiped me out for 2-3 days. Since I’ve been feeling better I’ve tried to do so much but it gets thrown back in my face. He was literally bitching about me to his mum before on the phone and I lost it. He says I start jobs and don’t finish them. I had a complete mental break only 4 weeks ago that resulted in me being assessed by the crisis team and he still doesn’t get how mentally fucked I am. We have two young kids so I’m constantly tidying and cleaning up after them and he does his bit but doesn’t see what I do at all. Makes me not want to even try.

And he wonders why I went for lunch with another man yesterday instead of him!!!

Edit to add: I went for lunch with another man who is one of my best friends. My kids were at my parents for the first time in a year and it was prearranged. I had been on my tablets for 4 days by this point and was feeling better. But he made a snarky comment saying ‘you can ship the kids off to go for lunch with him but not me.’ The problem is I hate going out with him coz we always argue coz he brings up all the stuff he wishes I did rather than being positive or enjoying the time.