What would you do?

Linzy

I need some advice. I’m newly married and during our entire relationship, my wife has triggered my PTSD. I’ve been open and honest with her about exactly what triggers me and we even go to therapy. The problem is, she keeps doing it. After years of me communicating to her about why I’m triggered, etc. I feel as though if she wanted to stop hurting me, she would but it doesn’t seem like she wishes to be self aware enough. What do I do? I feel like I’m in fight or flight wayyy too often to remain happy.