We just got home and I accidentally put the bag on the table without thinking. Water spilled all over and my husband got extremely mad and throw the bag on the ground and called me a stupid fucking cunt. Then proceeded to be mean to our 11.5 month old but I stopped that. Also told me to stop crying like a pussy. At this point I’m done with this marriage and will be looking at options. I would be a single mom to a 1 year old and newborn but life would be so much better. Just now he told me send our dog out and I won’t tell you again. I’m not looking at therapy because its too late for that.