My husband came home today and made a comment about joining the military and offering to go on a six month deployment. He was in the military previously and got out because we agreed we wanted a different life. We have a two year old and I recently suffered a miscarriage. When he made the comment about going on a deployment I made a comment about me having a different husband when he got back. I shouldn’t have but I have made it clear so many times that I’m not interested in raising our children alone. He got super pissed and said he isn’t happy in his job and that he isn’t doing this for the rest of his life. Basically implying that he’s miserable and I’m holding him back. It hurts so bad to hear that he feels unhappy with our life. We have good jobs, a nice home, and a beautiful daughter. We have a good life and generally get along really well. He goes on hunting trips, we have a boat, a family cottage, and we have lots of time with our families. We honestly have a blessed life but he is never happy. It’s never enough. He always wants more and blames me that he can’t have it. I’m just hurt 🙁