Husband acting weird……

So my husband left the living room to go upstairs to go to the bathroom he shut the door to the living room (we live in an old house)

I was on my phone, thinking he was upstairs and why’s it taking SO long whatever I’m scrolling through instant and I turned my head and there he was crouched down behind me staring at what I was doing on my phone

Cos where I sit on the couch I can’t see who’s behind me or who’s coming and going until they’re in front of me or unless I move and look back

It startled me he never went upstairs he shut that door so I would think he went upstairs

I told him ummm what the fuck are you doing?

He said what I was gonna scare you 🤷‍♂️

I said no you weren’t you were looking at what I was doing on my phone the last 6 or so minutes if you’re that insecure just ask. Are you disappointed to learn I’m not cheating?

He said well you think what you want

I said ok 🤷‍♀️

He does this shit all the time like before he comes in the room he always rattles the doorknob to announce his entrance

Anyone find this odd??

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I'm sorry, this took a turn I was not expecting and was low-key kind if funny.Yes it's odd, but it feels like he's feeling insecure. You guys should have a good conversation about what's truly at the core of the issue.

A

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Why would you automatically jump to he was lying? I think your behavior is weirder. I’ve sat and stared at my husband until he realized I was there to scare him and he’s never jumped to assuming I’m checking his phone.

ab

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I agree that your reaction was even weirder and would make me so upset if I were your husband. Why get so defensive over him looking at you? What if what he was saying was actually true? You made it such a big deal for no reason. You sound so suspicious like if you weren’t doing anything wrong you wouldn’t get that defensive.

JS

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I think that is weird asf

Ka

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My husband creeps into rooms all the time to scare me. Sometimes I’m scrolling on my phone, sometimes I’m just daydreaming, sometimes cooking. I never once would think “oh he thinks I’m cheating and wants to see my phone”. That’s way weirder. It sounds like you are paranoid not him.

Gl

Gl • Feb 28, 2023
Yup same. 🤦🏼‍♀️😂

Ka

Kaity • Feb 28, 2023
I’d like to add my husband will literally stand in complete silence and stare at me until I notice just to make me jump. It’s just playful and not him checking up on my activities.

My

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It’s a little odd to be honest, but try to talk to him more about this. A relationship is all about trust.

Al

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Lmaoo I would just laugh. Its not that serious. Even if he was staring it shouldn't be that big of an issue.

Me

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I was on your side until you started accusing him…

Ki

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I think your defensiveness is what’s odd.

bl

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I think you may want to know if he has found something out that you may be hiding…. So you need us to help read the cues. If you aren’t cheating it’s a very simple conversation you should have with you husband. You aren’t going to be able to understand him by asking us.