mom doesn’t help around the house

does it make me ungrateful that i wish my mom was cleaner? i understand moms do so much for us and all that but our house is disgusting and i’m the ONLY one who cares about it. I clean every single day because no one else does. i’m tired. i feel like i’m the mother and it’s been like this my whole life. our house is disgusting because no one takes care of it. i mean there’s dog piss ruining the wood doors and floors and it’s stained yellow and idk how the to fix that because i am a kid. i don’t have money to replace doors and base boards?????? there’s dead and alive bugs everywhere because my mom won’t help me get rid of infestations and clean. i’m exhausted.