Not had sex since my breakup a year ago and it’s embarrassing

When I was with my ex, I had a happy sex life. Until I was dumped out of the blue and never saw him again.

It’s taken me a whole year to move on and now I’m going on dates again. I feel ready for a relationship and to meet someone new but even when I have a good date, the dates feels platonic and they don’t ask for a second. I wish men would give me a chance.

I don’t want to flirt on a first coffee date as I am meeting a complete stranger but my friends says it’s ridiculous I’ve not had sex in over a year. Im so desperate for sex but I’m selective too