Husband wants to be intimate and I’m not up for it. I haven’t had my postpartum check up and I had a C-section with complications like cellulitis and congestive heart failure. I’m dealing with hemorrhoids and my incision is opening up (dr checked that and it’s fine). He knows all of this and still asked if I wanted to mess around tonight. I tried explaining to him how I was scared and feeling and all I got was “I hate this roommate phase.” I don’t feel like we’re there (we have been before). We cuddle, hold hands, hug, kiss, etc. I just don’t know what to do.