I'm a guy who is married to a wonderful woman. We discussed masturbating inside our marriage and we are both ok with each other masturbating as long as sex continues. If my wife isn't in the mood, I'll tell her that I'm going upstairs, or I'm gonna have a real nice shower and smile.

On the flip side, my wife doesn't masturbate as much as I do and I actually encourage it or say,, you had the house to yourself, did you try that new toy. She will respond,, nope just watched TV.

So here is the interesting point to this post and need women's feed back. I do get anxiety if she is home all day alone or even if she goes and takes a bath. Its almost like a panic attack yet I know she does it uses porn. So it's not that she is hiding it. I still get all worked up but I don't know why.