Sneaky link mad?

I have this sneaky link & today I was talking to my other male friend and my sneaky link walks pass us and spits next to us & walks away. My friend whom I was talking to does not know that we sneaky link so after he spat on the ground next to us my friend goes “wtf what a dickhead” and I know I’m not crazy because even he peeped it. I told my sister about it and she thought I was overreacting than I told my cousin about it and she goes and “texts him” about it after I told her not to & he texts her (the boy who spat) “get the fuck off my phone with her shit, idgaf why are you always the messenger” and than my cousin txxt back and say “how about y’all text” and he says “nah” but before all this happened I seen him & he looked mad, but we were fine 4 days ago , so I text him and say “you’re not funny” because I feel like if he has something to say he can say it like a man and not “spit” on the ground next to me like an ass. I think he’s mad about something so I’m now waiting for him to get out of his bitchfit to see what’s the problem. Do you guys think I have a right to say something or I should leave it alone?