We have this problem for years and I sent him to sleep recently to the guest room because if he can’t satisfy me why do I want to sleep with someone who doesn’t even touch me . I tried to talk to him about it for years he doesn’t like to eat me out I shower do everything he says he won’t do it he doesn’t even touch me just wants to fuck for a few seconds. He says that I’m just a piece of wood that doesn’t move during sex and that it isn’t all his fault and I told him that if he tried I could get turned on but each time I know I won’t be satisfied so that’s why I don’t even get exited I told him that’s the man’s job to satisfy a women. He is not cheating I’ve checked everything I wish it was that and not that he doesn’t desire me as a women anymore. He payed for my cosmetic surgery a bbl and tummy tuck and lipo he tells me each time he does something for me that why I’m depressed I told him because in years you haven’t been able to satisfy me and I don’t feel like your my husband. It hurt when he tells me I’m just a piece of wood that doesn’t move during sex I felt like crying right there and stared crying after it broke me he says it’s not just the women’s job. But I wish he ate me out touched me then had sex with me and that I could feel he desires me him to grab my neck do it with me even in the dark but he isn’t as freaky as me he is serious and not to sexual. That why I’m even embarrassed to be as vocal during sex and talk dirty during sex with him because he is serious he is selfish and just thinks of his pleasure. I told him I want a divorce and he is sleeping in the guest room on a mattress on the floor. He wants to sleep in my room just to be comfortable. No man that doesn’t touch me and anything will sleep in my room point blank. He lasted even two months without touching me. He uses the excuse of my abortions on me but I’ve had 3 abortions of his kids because of him rejecting me I don’t want to bring more stress to my life he uses as an excuse that to not touch me also. At the beginning we had sex everyday sometimes 3 times a day I was happy with him and satisfied.