Red flag?
I don’t know how to process this.
I’ve been int this power lifting class. I met this guy a while back. (1 year already) we are good friends….
Well let me actually get into detail. We both like eachother and just enjoying our time together and having sex!
He knows a bunch of other guys. Since we are always working out together I’m guessing the guys have become familiar with me and will wave at me when they see me too. It’s a large private gym/room.
Last night my friend (Chris) didn’t go and one of the guys whom he knows came up to me and introduced himself. He said that he sees me around Chris a lot and might ass well say hi to me. We talked and he even told me “let’s face time Chris so he can get jealous” I was like what? No one knows we are hooking up so we by would he tell me that?
He asks to help my form. I said I didn’t mind. He was correcting my form. And again he said “let’s face them Chris so he can get jealous”
I was thrown off and left. I said thanks but I’ll go workout on my own.
Today I told my friend. I said “hey your friend was spotting me and correcting my form. He kept saying to make u jealous. What is this all about?”
He got so upset and said “alright it’s fine you can train with him and I’ll just train someone else and not waste my time with you”
He was so upset he threw his phone to the couch. He kept saying it’s not jealousy but as a man he felt insulted bc it made him feel like his friend thinks he doesn’t know how to train me. He said I didn’t do anything wrong by talking to him but he felt insulted. He said he doesn’t know if they’re genuinely helping me or just as an excuse to talk to me????
I started to cry because I felt like I did something wrong. He kissed my cheek and said it’s ok….but that he’s mad still and if he sees that “foo” he will beat him up
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