When is a good time to have sex with my boyfriend? We’re both 17 and we’ve been together for 7 months now. I want to, but I’m worried that it might change our relationship and I don’t want that to happen. We have discussed it and I am on birth control and he has agreed to get condoms. But that was awhile ago and we haven’t talked about it since. How do I bring up having sex with him? I don’t want to pressure him into doing anything he isn’t comfortable with, but I also want to share that experience with him. Neither of us have had sex before so it would be a new experience for us both. Do you have any advice.