Hey guys I need some help.

So I have been talking to some guy since 2017. Key word talking. We were never official. He didn’t want to commit to me for 2 and a half years. But I was still loyal to him (I know I’m dumb). He says he wasn’t seeing other females however I did see him comment under females pictures before and when I would tell him that made me upset he would say we aren’t together I can do what I want.

Fast forward last year, I got done waiting on him to commit to me. I was still madly in love with him but I didn’t want to wait anymore so I slowly detached and met someone. I was with this person for a few months. Me and the other guy stopped speaking to each other. But occasionally I would reach out and say I still love him but he didn’t want to listen and said he needed to move on because he finally realized he is in love with me and i distanced myself from him.

Me and the other guy are over and done with. But he’s crazy. It’s been almost a year and he still texts me and creates fake accounts. He really makes me anxious. However me and the guy who I am in love with finally decided to fix things after almost a year and we are in a great place now. I love him and he loves me and I know that he is my person. I didn’t tell him about the other guy because I don’t want him to get mad or upset or him leave me. the other guy makes me so anxious I’m scared he’s going to find out who I’m seeing and reach out to him and tell him. The chances of that are slim to none but my anxiety is so bad I think it’ll happen.

What do I do? Am I the bad person?