I'm just curious really. My first and only relationship ended about a year ago after being together 10 years. I miss the intimate side of things (even tho it was a rarity with my ex). I am not ready for a relationship or to let someone else that close to me again any time soon. But I've been thinking about 1 night stands or like a friends with benefits. Honestly I never thought I would be someone who could do this and don't know if I could, but god I miss sex. I'm just not sure what I want to do tbh. Considering I've not really dated and I am pretty clueless with things, I'm not even sure how these things happen. Please help a girl out here.. what should I do. Any advice?