Did any of you guys go through the toxic phase of your relationship ? If so, how did you guys heal and come back healthier?

Question

Answer

I believe everyone of us as gone through some or the other sort of toxicity in our relationships. The best thing I did was getting a hobby and praying. That’s helped me a lot ❤️ Prayer got me courage, peace and hopefulness

Answer

Sadly with me and my ex the toxic stage never went away. And we broke up and I had to put no contacts into place with him do to the fact he would show up at my work after we broke up 
If you feel unsafe or if it doesn’t stop leave the relationship

Answer

Yes, with my ex but there was no fixing it. He was who he was, and that was that.

Answer

I don't know if I would say toxic, but I think most relationships go through hard times. My husband and I have been together 12 years and we've definitely both gone through times when we were unhealthy, irresponsible, and not good with communicating. The hard stuff sucked, but we're definitely better people than we were and stronger as a couple now. We've both done a lot of work on ourselves, physically and mentally, to be able to take better care of ourselves, each other and our son.

Answer

Wouldn’t call it toxic but we definitely hit a rough patch. All I can say is, communication, communication, communication. Proper communication is sooo important. We haven’t had a rough patch in years. We argue occasionally sure but we talk about everything with each other so even arguments are pretty rare. And we spend every day together cuz we both work from home

Answer

My husband and I dated from 13-18 and then broke up for a bit and got married super quick at 21 after getting back together and moving in with each other. We are 26 now and more in love then ever but we were young and stupid when we were young and didn’t always have the best communications and both of us were not as mature about things as we should have been. We def went through like a year that was really, really hard and I think we both questioned if things would work but we went to therapy and made God the center of our relationship again and I am just amazed at the man that he is and that I get to be his wife.

Answer

I wouldn’t say “toxic” but there was a point where there was more tension than I was comfortable with & it was clear we needed help w our communication. We had trouble coming to solutions after arguments.. it seemed like we would keep having disagreements about the same stuff & it would get swept under the rug instead of actually solved.. which created a negative cycle for us. We ended up going to counseling for a while - it helped having a mediator & we were able to really hear each other / see the other’s perspective. & we learned skills to help us communicate more effectively, we are now able to resolve things instead of constantly circling back.

Answer

When my husband and I officially moved in together we fought A LOT. We were 21 so super young and stupid lol. I went to therapy and he dod a lot of research on having a partner with ASD. That paired with putting our communication skills into practice and processing our upbringings (a lot of long long talks) turned things completely around. Theres no easy fix in a situation that has become toxic, it is going to take a lot of hard work. But i can definitely say it is worth it, for 3 years now my husband and I NEVER yell or fight like we used to and if we argue it is resolved within an hour.

Did any of you guys go through the toxic phase of your relationship ? If so, how did you guys heal and come back healthier?

Let's Glow!

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey