Normal or manipulative?

My boyfriend of 10 months (who I dont live with) gives me the silent treatment and will genuinely ignore me for not even hours but days at a time if I do something he doenst agree with or if I dont do something he wants me to this isnt normal is it? It drives me crazy as I am a very anxious emotional person and It makes me very upset.I have brought this up and he told me to just do what he says and it wont happen but it just feels very minapulative,opinions? Ive been made to do things that I didnt want to because of this and its really upsetting.