I FINALLY spoke to my attorney yesterday and she said his uncontested papers he gave to me were trash and that I need to file immediately.

Back track real quick

My husband sold his house from under me and the kids and my name wasn’t on it…my attorney advised me in December 2022 to freeze the sale…he manipulated me into thinking it would ruin mine and my kids lives if i did.

Before his house sold he kept throwing divorce at me…he went November and got a re rental house for only himself…

Second week of November his house sold and he said me and kids have to figure something out…then offered to pay for me and the kids somewhere to live for only a year…also had it put into the divorce agreement.

So basically he expected to pay only

Year 23,400 for me and the kids to live in a house that we will have to eventually leave and have to go to my parents home which is super tight for me and 3 kids and 2 cats…(I’m a stay at home mom btw zero work history) and only pay 500 child support..

He sold his house for 350000 then claims walked away with only 190k

But lives comfortably but threatens for me and the kids to live like total Sh#t. But before I told him I have to file he wanted to work with me on getting me to own my own house…it’s insane to me…mad over a mother wanting better for his kids after all of this being his choice and idea…he wanted this…I didn’t do anything wrong to him but want him to stop lying to me about countless thing…

This entire situation makes me feel like a failure and a loser because I have NOTHING.

He has all control and he knows it.

But I’ve been standing my ground…

So basically yesterday I finally spoke to him after he went missing all weekend and told him the papers were trash and that I’m moving forward on filing

He told he if I do that then I need to begin my move to my parents asap because he won’t pay for the house anymore, the rental is in both of our names.

My attorney said her main concern was him not paying for the house anymore as well…

He’s a narcissist…I’m the blame for everything and its all his way or nothing and I’m absolutely fed up, he never takes our kids for the purpose of me him knowing I’ll begin living my life…im just…worried…