My mil is always talking about how she can’t wait for her son (my bd) to be making enough money to take care of her. That she can’t wait till she doesn’t have to work anymore. And is CONSTANTLY asking him for money. This last Christmas she got upset cause we only got her shoes. Mind you, he was in a slump and I was the only one with enough money to pay for her and everyone else in my family cmas gifts.

She is constantly disrespecting me. She told my bd and I that she’d watch our son and then bailed on us. And when we mentioned how we felt she started going ballistic. Constantly trying to tell me something I’m doing “wrong”. For ex. Every time I dress my son she wants me to put on him what she wants. She used to come into our apartment and critique every fucking thing. One ex out of MANY. Ran out of hand soap, had bar soap as replacement. She comes in my house bitching bout us having bar soap. We go to her house not long after and guess what she has. Bar soap. I’m over it. I want to cut her off but Ik my hubby would hate my guts.

One more ex. My son made a mess (he was 2), and bc I didn’t clean it up right away she starts to say “idk how you were raised, but we clean up after the babies and men around here.”