So I honestly don't have an issue with them infact I want one with a nother male and a nother female..... However.... He told me he wants to have it with one of my friends...now this girl has always had a thing for me I have known her for almost 10 years how ever I don't feel the same about her. When I asked him why he told me it's because she touched me ( she used to grope and bit my boobs without my consent when we were teens she doesn't do it now) that's all she has ever done and he made it very clear the last time we had sex he got off to FUCKING HER! Like he went in to detail how it would go and it was obvious he was hella in to it. He then told me when we had finished to message her and ask her for if she wanted to do it! I am so uncomfortable with him having anything to do with her now that I know the truth. For months he has lied to me about having a thing for her but talked about her moving in with us and so much more buying her and her kids stuff out wanting to take her out ( I don't mind helping but he was going overboard with it) she has 3 kids and we have 2 he was literally telling me our kids could wait for things they need but hers couldn't.

I guess I just want input on if you were in this situation. How would you feel I feel bad because he did finally express how he feels about her but he did it in the most awful way possible.