Does it sound like he already has someone at home?

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The guy I started talking to:
*Barely texts throughout the day
*Tells me I couldn’t leave hickeys on his neck because he’s “too ticklish”
*Gave him my number and his texts are green even tho he has an iPhone. He says it’s because his iPhone is “behind on updates and his kids messed it up”

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Please don’t give each other hickeys. That is so tacky. 😬 
If you have a bad feeling about things, then don’t be involved. Why live your life that way? It’s really that simple.

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Edit: I backsearched the number and it comes up as a “landline” and the voicemail message says “Google subscriber” so I’m sure it’s a fake number. I told him to stop talking to me!

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He could just be busy during the day with his kids or work 
And he is entitle to not want hickeys 
He could also not have his iMessage on 
All seems normal I dont see any need to be worried

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This isn't difinitive tbh, he probably works during the day. I personally don't message when I'm at work. I don't like anyone leaving hickies on me. Does he message on days off? What sort of time is he messaging you?

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1. Not everyone texts all the time, i dont.  2. Not everyone likes hickeys, i hate them. Nope, never. 3. Phone colors? Idk about apple phones. Either way, you are reading alot into little things. Its clear you dont trust him so i wouldnt pursue if there is no trust.

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I don't know, but the whole idea of him giving you a hickey to mark his territory, would be enough for me to break up with him. You don't belong to anyone. You're not a piece of property. That's really gross. He's allowed to not want hickeys, I personally hate them and will never let anyone give me one, but I do find it strange that he has this unhealthy mindset about marking territory, yet you're not allowed to.  Other than that, not texting much during the day isn't a great indicator, especially considering that he works nights. Daytime would probably consist of sleeping and caring for his kids. Even on weekends. He might not have his iMessage on, or he could have do not disturb on. I literally leave my do not disturb on all weekend long because well… I don't want to be disturbed. I'm single just don't want to be bothered when I'm busy cleaning my house or playing with my kid, or binging a show, etc. It's nothing personal. ￼￼

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That is a taken man sweetie

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Jesus, you have issue. Hickeys are tacky. His iMessage could be off and most people are busy during the day to text, I don’t know what you do for a job/study but I don’t have time to text my husband during the day at work. Sounds normal to me. You already sound waaay to invested, if you keep thinking like this, then there is no point in trying to have a relationship with him, it would be unhealthy.

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If he has kids then he obviously has someone at home (his kids). It would be more worthwhile to find a man without these commitments. His children should come first, not a relationship. He clearly didn’t pull it together enough to remain married or in the relationship with the mother of his children.

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On the fr tho hickeys on the neck are very tacky. No thanks

Does it sound like he already has someone at home?

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