Would love to hear about others experiences..

Let me give you all some background information before I even say anything. I’m over 14 but under 18, I’m black and currently going through an identity crisis. So basically, I’m being called whitewashed by other girls and when I ask how, they say it’s because I don’t act “ghetto” like how a stereotyped AA should. I would just like to hear about anyone else’s experience with being called whitewashed, just so I know I’m not alone. I would go to my mom about this but she isn’t a real good comforter and would just make me feel like shit. 💗