What time is reasonable to not reply back???

What is a reasonable time for your boyfriend to not reply back?

I’m really trying not to be toxic or crazy but on his days off he does not reply back until the night. We have always had big problems and broken up before because or communication problems.

Today he is off. I wrote to him this morning at out 12pm. As of now it is 5pm and he still has not replied back.

Wha time do you find acceptable to not reply back? Honestly more than 4 hours is unacceptable especially if you’re off that day.

Honestly that triggers the crazy in me especially if he sees my story during that time period and still does not reply back.

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Ki

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Just break up for good. It sounds like you are not compatible

Al

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If no contact for a few hours makes you go “toxic and crazy” then you really should not be in a relationship right now. Best case he is just busy doing a hobby, yard work, cleaning etc. Worst case he just isn’t very interested in you.

to

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y’all just need to break up and stay broken up

H

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He’s not the one for you if he’s making you act toxic and crazy. Point blank. He’s not worth it and it’s time to move on.

lu

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Sounds like you need to break up with him

Mo

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Omg yes, I can relate to this 🙄 So my S/O is in midst of looking for a job, we live separately and today was my day off from work. So I tried showing I wanted to talk,I tried 8 am, 10 am, and 5 pm: granted he answered some but not when and mainly have my messages read but not answers 🤔

Su

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I ve known an asshole who does such thing before. It really triggers me so much to go and punch his face the next day. He wont reply me back but will be online during the whole time as if I dont check his last seens. He will just ignore and go on with his shits. Sometimes he will reply in hours, sometimes a day. But wouldnt take more than a day cause he will have to face me in the office the next time. Weird thing was, he will be the one to text me first most of the time but then will dissapear as soon as I replied. I found out later that he would love to dirty talk but when I act normal and discouraging at the same time, he will just vanish like that. So yeah, hes just a jerk who doesnt deserves to be valued n loved by girl like me. Dump him girl! If you are not a priority then why ??

Ol

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He’s obviously not interested then if he viewing your story while leaving u on delivered