What if he lied about his age and turns out to be 20 years older?

I’m 28

I have been dating a guy for 3 months. When we met it was more of a friend thing. We didn’t exchange numbers until 5 months into the relationship

He looked like he was in his mid 30s

He told me he was 40 which was no big deal …. We went out last night to a bar and his license fell. I got it and I saw it said 1974….so he’s turning 49 next month!!!

It’s all making sense to me now. It took 2 months to have sex with eachother when we started dating. We started dating in January and didn’t have sex until March. He had trouble keeping it up and felt guilty after we did it. I was lost. I remember I was caressing his head and he even said “I know you’re looking at my white hairs”

He doesn’t even have any and he kept saying it makes him sad he’s older than me but at that time I didn’t think a 12 year difference was a lot