I always love to hear people’s crazy family stories, so I thought I would share mine. My husband has a younger sister (18) who has made a series of choices that made us decide to go no contact. At first she was a really sweet girl who wanted a bright future. That took a turn quickly when she started hanging with the wrong people. She started dating a guy who was a total creep, really weird guy. She thought we did not like his because of his race, which was never an issue and honestly hurt our feelings. When my middle daughter was a baby, he would touch her in really weird ways that made me us uncomfortable. I went with my gut and said he was no longer welcome in our home. This caused a huge problem. She would always come to my house unannounced while I was trying to nap with the baby. She would blow my phone up and hop the fence to bang on my bedroom door. She even went to my stepdaughters mother, told her I was scared of her husband because of his race( I had never said anything bad about the guy) and said I was mean to my stepdaughter (it was always the SIL who was mean). Once she even threatened to “beat my ass” because I would not let her take my stepdaughter to the park at 7 at night, while I was holding my infant daughter. She thought she had more authority over my stepdaughter than me. One day my MIL was watching my stepdaughter and SIL called DSS on MIL because MIL would not let her live with her bf. My stepdaughter had to see all the arguing, DSS officials and cops. She was terrified and now won’t go anywhere with MIL because she is traumatized. SIL once called the cops on my husband claiming he slapped her, and they tried to arrest him. Thankfully they looked up her record and saw she was notorious for lying. Our final straw was when she was begging to watch my then 9 month old all by herself. I told her she could come see her but not take her alone. She was furious and then started talking about how I’m a horrible mother and am ruining my children. I kept telling her that we did not trust her. She then decided to bad mouth my twin sister who had cerebral palsy. She said that my “bitch ass retarded sister” was going to ruin my kids. And then told me to go “take care of your bitch ass sister so you can lie and get paid cause that’s all she’s worth to you”. Mind you, my sister was never able to even speak and definitely could not defend herself. Now she doesn’t understand why we still won’t talk to her. I told her she would never see my kids again. She has never met my 1 year old son either. No apologizes have been attempted and she sees nothing wrong. MIL tries to get us to talk to her and make amends. My sister died in February and I can’t help but hold a grudge because of the horrible things said about her. Now SIL is pregnant and is upset because we haven’t bought her anything for the baby. She never bought our babies anything. MIL keeps telling us it’s not the baby’s fault. She won’t understand the pain I’m feeling because my husband and I will never get to be an aunt or uncle. Also, none of the kids can go to MIL’s house because SIL lives there. My MIL will let her FaceTime the kids even though I have told her I don’t like that.