IM SO SICK OF FRIENDS ONLY HANGING WITH THEIR HUSBANDS

Is something wrong with me? My cousin won’t take the kids to the beach with me in the summer because she doesn’t feel confident going with both of her kids without her husband. My other friend ONLY will hang if both of our husbands come along. IM SO ANNOYED. I just don’t get it why have more and more kids if you never feel confident going without your husband outside? It’s so weird to me.